Navigating through the corridors of teenage hood is not a walk in the park. Teenagehood otherwise known as adolescent stage is one of the most critical phase in your child’s life .

It is the phase that defines who and what your child will become.

At this stage, your child is faced with alot of psychogical decision to make hence the need for proper guidance because whatever decision they make now is very pivotal to the kind of adults they will become.

One of the toughest  psychological decision your child has to make at this point is that of FINDING AN IDENTITY, it is at this phase that your child is trying to answer the silent but loud question ‘ WHO AM I’ ? At this point , they begin to experiment with several identities ,many of which they adopt from Social media, celebrities, and the society.
 
  This is the point where extreme care has to be taken when dealing with your child as this is the point where many parents begin to loose touch with their children because at this point, Parents begin to try to give their child an identity rather than guiding  them to find their own identity. The effect of this forced identity on the child can be disastrous in the future

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  • Your child has an identity mismatch which will eventually bring about identity clash and this can further aggravate the psychological stress they are already facing which can lead to an emotional breakdown which could make them prone to  destructive behavioural patterns such as  substance abuse, addictions e t.c.
  • The child has pseudo identity- a situation where your child puts upon identity at the home front just to please you and then becomes another identity ( which is usually negative)when they are away from the home.

This forced identity on them could tamper with their self esteem,self worth, self appreciation and self acceptance thereby making them  dysfunctional adults. 

Your teenager is an INDIVIDUAL, he/ she is NOT an extension of you the parent ! this is the mistake lots of Parents make.

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Is your teenager showing signs of

  • Agitation
  • Persistent Sadness
  • Trouble with school work
  • Lack of motivation or interest in people or activities that usually excites them
  • Excess sleep or little sleep
  • Substance abuse
  • Destructive behaviours
  • Withdrawal/ isolation
  • Expressing hopelessness and unexciting about live

Then this is for you!

At this critical point in your child’s life , introducing your child to PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT & INTENTIONAL LIVING is the best gift you can offer your child from their teenage days

Finding, loving and accepting their identity is the toughest psychological decision your teenager is struggling to make now and the ability to make the right decision is the bedrock of the kind of adult he/she will grow up to become.

Do not make this even toughest by trying to give or force an identity on them remember

YOUR CHILD IS AN INDIVIDUAL, AN ENTITY OF THEIR OWN not AN EXTENSION OF THEIR PARENT !

Get your child a personal Coach / mentor who can walk them through this phase of their life and guide them into SELF DISCOVERY & SELF MASTERY  thereby helping them discover their identity which they can own and be proud of.

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