This forced identity on them could tamper with their self esteem,self worth, self appreciation and self acceptance thereby making them dysfunctional adults.
At this critical point in your child’s life , introducing your child to PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT & INTENTIONAL LIVING is the best gift you can offer your child from their teenage days
Finding, loving and accepting their identity is the toughest psychological decision your teenager is struggling to make now and the ability to make the right decision is the bedrock of the kind of adult he/she will grow up to become.
Do not make this even toughest by trying to give or force an identity on them remember
Get your child a personal Coach / mentor who can walk them through this phase of their life and guide them into SELF DISCOVERY & SELF MASTERY thereby helping them discover their identity which they can own and be proud of.